163. It's Not a Confidence Problem [The Real Reason You're Not Making Your Next Move]
Recently I've really questioned why I struggle to show up consistently on social media... Posting is essential for me in order to grow my audience, promote my offers, podcast, and grow this community.
So when I feel confused and struggle to show up it is honestly paralyzing. I start to question my self, "Am I even cut out for this?" "How do I even come back to posting again" and so many unsupportive thoughts that clearly get me no where.
In this episode I breakdown 4 reasons that might be holding you back from making your next move, wether you are struggling to show up on social media, maybe you are sitting on an idea you've been wanting to take action on, you haven't asked for the promotion or raise, or you haven't started taking care of your health. Whatever it is you are stuck on, you are more than likely letting one of these four things hold you back.
Reason #1: Identity attachments: whether you are attaching yourself to old identities or new ones that aren't allowing you to see yourself as the next version of yourself
Reason #2: You are afraid to be seen. Not seen like showing up, but actually be seen. For example you are afraid to share what you stand for or share your hot takes. You often question yourself: what if I come off the wrong way?
Reason #3: You struggle with consistency: You show up consistently for a few weeks and then find yourself burnt out taking a long break from your goals. You use excuses like, "I don't have enough time" or "I have too much on my plate already".
Reason #4: You have Decision Fatigue: You have too many options and no frame work. You spend most of your time thinking about new ideas instead of sticking with one, making a plan, and taking action.
I don't know about you, but recently I found myself letting a bit of all of these hold me back from getting back into what I love to do most, empower women to take action and become the Mujer贸n of their dreams.
I allowed more than one of these reasons to stop me from recording my podcast ("I don't have time for it), to start selling my offers ("I'm currently going through a rut myself, how am I supposed to help women?), or posting on social media one week and ghost for the next week.
We are no longer allowing these reasons to hold us back, amiga. I hope this episode helps you step into your Next Chapter.
Sonia馃挅
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